Hats off Vishakha Singh!

This is another post linked to my previous posts. Actress Vishakha Singh was literally 'molested by FB comments'. And see what she has in store as a reply to this pervert. 

Happy that you had the guts which many girls including me did not have when people inboxed you or messaged inappropriately! This is a serious inspiration! Thank you Vishakha for setting a good example.

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Religion- a form to be obeyed? or followed by one's own choice?

Well this is related to one of my posts earlier this week, to be precise it was yesterday, when i wrote an article about stalking on the celebrities too much and annoying them with our negative and unnerving comments.

I am a facebook user and found today that this stalking has taken a terrifying curve around the corner while reading the comments on a post by an actress on her trip elsewhere and some buddhist monks accompanying her in the background.

I don't find anything wrong in it, do you?

Well there were some others who found this biased based on religion. Know why? Because she is  Ansiba Hassan, a muslim by birth and the comments left by some were astonishingly horrid. Some were even kind of terrorising. Oh come on! She should not pose for a picture with buddhist monks because you think that is forbidden for a muslim? That is really incomprehensible!

Religion stops you from taking photos? Well she was most of the time blamed by some on the internet for not wearing the hijab or the scarf covering the heads(usually worn by muslims around the world). 

There are a lot of good people from the muslim community living amongst us. Please do not spoil their names with such unworthy comments. There are plenty of good ones out there, please make sure that you don't become the bad one and terrorize people with your comments. Its awful.

I do not wish to type those comments left by them. Will leave you with some screenshots before the people who left these comments disown them.

I believe this girl is a well educated one and she can choose between right and wrong at least based on what is making her happy at the moment. Give her space and let her choose. As i said in my last post 'Let others smile too' !!!

Stalking too much on the celeb life?

It seems very fashionable to stick to the style of celebrities, follow updates on them, like their facebook pages, share their latest pictures with friends and family, follow them on twitter and maybe even get their latest gossips on magazines and the internet.

All the above do have a positive side but like a coin it has another face, the negative side of it. We get to know about some celebrity 'X' but there are many who follow them just to make and deduce stories from something the 'X' might not have said directly or something they really did not mean! Why should we bother them with our silly deductions and made-up stories? They have a life just like everyone of us right?

Just think. You and your friends were going out for dinner. A complete stranger finds it amusing, gets a photo and posts it without your permission. May it be awkward or not, it was done without your consent. You will know it only when you see it on the social media the very next day. You really wouldn't like it.

When the gossip itself cannot be tolerated then what about the petty comments some readers leave on such posts? I have seen thousands of people pass comments on blogging sites as well as social media reporting gossips about celebrities. The comments are sometimes very positive and some do respond the way it requires a response, but at other times its really horrible. Some even comment about their desire to have this 'X' for themselves!!! How perverted a person can be to comment on such things!!!

 Be a fan, thats good,but doesn't mean you have to stalk continuously on their personal lives as well. That too in a very negative and unpleasant way.

It is a very interesting activity to share latest news, unavailable to others, via internet, but lets not spoil the essence of it. The thirst to know about celebrity 'X' is fine. Meanwhile the unnerving comments and posts can be avoided if we imagine ourselves in the same frame that we forced upon 'X'. Lets not share gossips that we ourselves do not have proof about. Lets not spoil somebody else's private space. We ourselves wouldn't entertain anybody who would fish out of our life some unnecessary details. So lets not do it to somebody else too. Keep smiling and let others smile too.