Stalking too much on the celeb life?

It seems very fashionable to stick to the style of celebrities, follow updates on them, like their facebook pages, share their latest pictures with friends and family, follow them on twitter and maybe even get their latest gossips on magazines and the internet.

All the above do have a positive side but like a coin it has another face, the negative side of it. We get to know about some celebrity 'X' but there are many who follow them just to make and deduce stories from something the 'X' might not have said directly or something they really did not mean! Why should we bother them with our silly deductions and made-up stories? They have a life just like everyone of us right?

Just think. You and your friends were going out for dinner. A complete stranger finds it amusing, gets a photo and posts it without your permission. May it be awkward or not, it was done without your consent. You will know it only when you see it on the social media the very next day. You really wouldn't like it.

When the gossip itself cannot be tolerated then what about the petty comments some readers leave on such posts? I have seen thousands of people pass comments on blogging sites as well as social media reporting gossips about celebrities. The comments are sometimes very positive and some do respond the way it requires a response, but at other times its really horrible. Some even comment about their desire to have this 'X' for themselves!!! How perverted a person can be to comment on such things!!!

 Be a fan, thats good,but doesn't mean you have to stalk continuously on their personal lives as well. That too in a very negative and unpleasant way.

It is a very interesting activity to share latest news, unavailable to others, via internet, but lets not spoil the essence of it. The thirst to know about celebrity 'X' is fine. Meanwhile the unnerving comments and posts can be avoided if we imagine ourselves in the same frame that we forced upon 'X'. Lets not share gossips that we ourselves do not have proof about. Lets not spoil somebody else's private space. We ourselves wouldn't entertain anybody who would fish out of our life some unnecessary details. So lets not do it to somebody else too. Keep smiling and let others smile too.